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Post by Style4ya on Jan 22, 2004 19:34:27 GMT -5
Why does it seem that men love the heck out of women who treat them like s__t? Even men I have talked to in general conversation have noticed this. Whats the deal?
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Post by The_Realist on Jan 23, 2004 0:46:30 GMT -5
..same reason why some women love men who treat them like sh!t.
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Post by Craig on Jan 23, 2004 9:49:53 GMT -5
I thought that was the reason why we date white women?  |
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Post by Simply_Uneque on Jan 23, 2004 10:37:26 GMT -5
And the women that treat them good... they treat like shyt.
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Post by Auset on Jan 24, 2004 11:18:50 GMT -5
It's called the if I can get over I will get over and walk all over cycle. One that we need to break but probally never will. Just like people using the n word. It's just that way. It takes two mature people to finally say I'm done using or being the user. Let's be real with one another, I will no longer allow you to treat me like shit. And it's a respect factor. Some people don't know how to act when they have a good woman or man so they start trippin' I mean straight trippin.
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Post by Style4ya on May 6, 2004 10:15:31 GMT -5
In light of all the bull ish that is going on, this thread needs to be bumped!!!!!
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Post by joyluv on May 7, 2004 8:58:29 GMT -5
Humans get complacent when this are cushioned. it feels safe and secure and so it seems. It deems impossible to be alone when in that mindframe so one will accept being abused or mistreated and channel or mistake it as something that is good.
An abuser/mistreater deems that behavior is a source of control. it's called projection. Put others in compromising positions or dehumanize one to puff yourself up while the abuser is actually rotting inside from self-hate and self doubt.
It's all in the mind. The body won't move if the mind doesn't. The solution is the mindset and the realizations that these types of situation are not fruitful. The heart will always be pliable but the mind is the center.
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Post by Style4ya on May 7, 2004 14:57:50 GMT -5
Damn girl, you just broke that down. I need to take Joy's Psychology 101!
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Post by Simply_Uneque on May 19, 2004 8:53:49 GMT -5
Humans get complacent when this are cushioned. it feels safe and secure and so it seems. It deems impossible to be alone when in that mindframe so one will accept being abused or mistreated and channel or mistake it as something that is good. An abuser/mistreater deems that behavior is a source of control. it's called projection. Put others in compromising positions or dehumanize one to puff yourself up while the abuser is actually rotting inside from self-hate and self doubt. It's all in the mind. The body won't move if the mind doesn't. The solution is the mindset and the realizations that these types of situation are not fruitful. The heart will always be pliable but the mind is the center. Very well put Joy!!! Can I ask how many of us have been in relationships like this at one point or another in our lifetimes? |
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