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Love
Feb 3, 2004 10:17:45 GMT -5
Post by Simply_Uneque on Feb 3, 2004 10:17:45 GMT -5
What do you know for sure about Love?
Lets discuss!!!
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Love
Feb 3, 2004 10:33:43 GMT -5
Post by Mesha on Feb 3, 2004 10:33:43 GMT -5
The only thing that I can say I know for sure about love is that it is not supposed to hurt you.
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Sadiki2k
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Love
Feb 3, 2004 10:38:55 GMT -5
Post by Sadiki2k on Feb 3, 2004 10:38:55 GMT -5
...that it has so many differnt levels that we are sometimes lost in the meaning and lost in our feelings. I do know that it does hurt :'(and it can make you feel good . Finding the middle ground is the hard part.
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Love
Feb 3, 2004 10:46:28 GMT -5
Post by Auset on Feb 3, 2004 10:46:28 GMT -5
Love is a struggle, without your commitment to make it work love can do you wrong. Once you take the time to understand it completely and accept the fact that every level of love will not meet your requirements and you have to work with it, love can do you right.
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Love
Feb 4, 2004 14:37:40 GMT -5
Post by ariez329 on Feb 4, 2004 14:37:40 GMT -5
I believe its one of the strongest emotions that exists.... Love can cause the nicest person to turn into the meanest person, depending on how it has effected them...
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Sadiki2k
Almost fam *Step brother/sister*
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Love
Feb 4, 2004 16:01:31 GMT -5
Post by Sadiki2k on Feb 4, 2004 16:01:31 GMT -5
...so true
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Love
Feb 5, 2004 10:03:02 GMT -5
Post by Simply_Uneque on Feb 5, 2004 10:03:02 GMT -5
I know what you mean ariez!!! I am at that point now in my relationship.
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Love
Feb 5, 2004 11:03:33 GMT -5
Post by Auset on Feb 5, 2004 11:03:33 GMT -5
when you take the lust out of love is it still love? Is that real love or is the lust what was real for the relationship? If the truth comes out and only one person loved the other lusted the results can be ugly.
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Love
Feb 5, 2004 12:07:47 GMT -5
Post by Tori on Feb 5, 2004 12:07:47 GMT -5
I've only experienced true love once in my life and our love made us lustful. When we met there wasn't this immediate sexual attraction, just friendly banter. Then we started hanging out one on one and the closer we got the further we took it. We would have these late night picnics in the park and talk until the sun came up. For the longest time lust never played any part in it...even our kisses were sweet, not lustful. I don't think lust plays a very big role in true love...
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Love
Feb 5, 2004 14:43:48 GMT -5
Post by Simply_Uneque on Feb 5, 2004 14:43:48 GMT -5
I am sick of falling in LOVE and getting hurt!!!
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Love
Feb 5, 2004 14:48:21 GMT -5
Post by ariez329 on Feb 5, 2004 14:48:21 GMT -5
Simply... the next time just walk into it.... Walk into love instead of falling, cuz when you fall you risk the chances of the other person stepping and walking all over you...
Walk into that sh*t and whoever doesn't follow, then it wasn't meant to be...
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Love
Feb 5, 2004 14:53:03 GMT -5
Post by Simply_Uneque on Feb 5, 2004 14:53:03 GMT -5
We took it slow... and were best friends first. But now I am so hurt!!! And the thing that hurts the most is I always had his back and went the extra mile!!! I give so much of myself and for what? To be hurt like always!!! Everyone I talk to can feel my pain.
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Sadiki2k
Almost fam *Step brother/sister*
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Love
Feb 5, 2004 15:08:31 GMT -5
Post by Sadiki2k on Feb 5, 2004 15:08:31 GMT -5
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Love
Feb 5, 2004 18:21:54 GMT -5
Post by Msmoore on Feb 5, 2004 18:21:54 GMT -5
Love is not suppose to hurt, it is kind, it's forgiving and it keeps no wrong. This is my definition but unfortunately it can hurt and somtimes it take that hurt to recognize what true love is all about. I was in a relationship on and off for about 12 years!!! mind you we broke up in between, I gave and gave and gave and yes we were freinds before lovers but sometimes it takes one situation to make you realize the person is not for you. I unfortuanatly had to learn the hard way. This man was very selfish condescending and hurtful, it seemed like the more he hurt me the happier he became. This man's family had even turned their back on him he was jobless, homeless and had just lost his mom. I accepted him as is and let him work out his problems, I was there for him literally day and night. Needless to say it all fell apart when I suffered a personal tradgedy I was so hurt I cried for three days straght I finally decided enough was enough I had nothing else left in me to give. I began to evalutate what was really important to me and I questioned myself as to why would I cry over someone whom I never had. He has repeadidly appologized and I told him I forgive but I do not forget. The relationship has taught me to think before I jump and really look into what makes me happy. Yes I was saddened but you live and you learn . I am glad I went through this now and not later, but who's to say something else mind altering will not happen? this time I will be able to recoginize sooner than later. We all go through things but we go through them for a reason, wether it be good or bad.
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Love
Feb 5, 2004 18:35:43 GMT -5
Post by Autumn on Feb 5, 2004 18:35:43 GMT -5
I know love should be about trust, and respect. And what I have learned is that you have to feel like you can be yourself with that person and they have to be your friend as well as your lover. That's about all I know so far but a sista is learning.
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