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Post by Simply_Uneque on Apr 2, 2004 10:23:35 GMT -5
Popular wisdom has it that guys will hit on anything that breathes, but the truth is, we can be pickier than an 80-year-old widow squeezing melons at the corner supermarket. Even more than women — who (fairly or unfairly) are as likely to reject guys based on their earning power and personality as the way they look — men tend to be strictly superficial when it comes to dating, recklessly dismissing otherwise attractive gals according to the following skin-deep criteria:
Her age
A few generations ago, unmarried women in their late teens were considered hopeless spinsters; today, youthful-looking 50-year-olds are having triplets. Now that I've put things into perspective, does it really matter if that otherwise perfect gal is a couple of years older than your desired range? True, if you're in your early 30s, there's no reason you have to date a 60-year-old. But if you're 40 years old and refuse to consider any woman older than 37, you may want to rethink your priorities.
I always like older women...especially in her 30's...man is like a horny teenager all over agan...but only seasoned and with experience...ummm...that alone is bombay...but me I don't like girls younger than me...I don't know...she gotta be at least 23-25...21 thats just too young...age don't matter as long as she carry herself in a womanly manner
Her weight
Decades of exposure to primetime TV, Playboy magazine and the Howard Stern Show have convinced men that the ideal female is 5 feet 7 inches tall and weighs 100 pounds. As a result, what most guys consider "overweight" is actually quite normal, and "obese" is only a few pounds over that. If you rule out a gal for being (in your eyes) five or ten pounds overweight, you need to turn off the boob tube and spend more time in the real world.
I weigh 185lbs...and I dont want a woman that weigh more than me...I like all women...but if she weigh more than me...then I will not treat her no different...but physically...it just won't be there...and thats real talk
Her voice
No one expects you to date a woman who sounds like Fran Drescher from "The Nanny." But just as it's too easy to be seduced by a pretty voice on the phone, it's also a cinch to rule out an otherwise fetching gal because of her Noo Yawk accent or weird, high-pitched giggle. By the third or fourth date, you'll know for sure whether her voice is really a deal-breaker or just an excuse to keep from getting serious.
I love a woman with a sexy voice...umm...I like accents...I like foriegn girls too...I think accents are so sexy...umm....it drives me crazy when a girl whispers in my ear...she could be saying get off yo lazy ass and take out the trash...but how she says it...its different
Her hair color
I won't delve here into the varied and complex reasons why guys are obsessed with blondes, mainly because I don't know what they are. What I do know, however, is that ruling out a pretty, perky, smart gal because she happens to have dark hair is like refusing a gift of a brand-new Porsche because the upholstery is the wrong color. If she likes you enough (and lord knows why she would, with that attitude), maybe she'll get a dye job and indulge your fantasies.
unless her shit is pink, purple, or orange than we cool...I mean she could have any color as long as she coordinating and looking good
[glow=red,2,300]Alright fellas... what are your thoughts??[/glow]
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Post by Grits on Apr 2, 2004 11:23:16 GMT -5
Popular wisdom has it that guys will hit on anything that breathes, but the truth is, we can be pickier than an 80-year-old widow squeezing melons at the corner supermarket. Even more than women — who (fairly or unfairly) are as likely to reject guys based on their earning power and personality as the way they look — men tend to be strictly superficial when it comes to dating, recklessly dismissing otherwise attractive gals according to the following skin-deep criteria:
[shadow=red,left,300][glow=red,2,300]Just remember that a lot of sistas reject men because of what they can or can't do for them in a materialistic fashion. So ladies before you complain, make sure this isn't you.[/glow][/shadow]
Her age
A few generations ago, unmarried women in their late teens were considered hopeless spinsters; today, youthful-looking 50-year-olds are having triplets. Now that I've put things into perspective, does it really matter if that otherwise perfect gal is a couple of years older than your desired range? True, if you're in your early 30s, there's no reason you have to date a 60-year-old. But if you're 40 years old and refuse to consider any woman older than 37, you may want to rethink your priorities.
[shadow=red,left,300][glow=red,2,300]I always said that once I got to be an adult she couldn't be more than 10 years older than me. And to me that's cutting it. Anything older is just a different generation. Hard to make a connection under those obstacles.[/glow][/shadow]
Her weight
Decades of exposure to primetime TV, Playboy magazine and the Howard Stern Show have convinced men that the ideal female is 5 feet 7 inches tall and weighs 100 pounds. As a result, what most guys consider "overweight" is actually quite normal, and "obese" is only a few pounds over that. If you rule out a gal for being (in your eyes) five or ten pounds overweight, you need to turn off the boob tube and spend more time in the real world.
[shadow=red,left,300][glow=red,2,300]Ok I have a rule concerning this. Just like you wouldn't want me to be all dumpy and jiggling everywhere, I expect the same out of you. Don't just sit there and let yourself go. If you're rubbing thighs when you walk, hell it's time to drop 10 to 100 pounds. I mean be real...do you want my stomach hanging 8 inches below my waist?[/glow][/shadow]
Her voice
No one expects you to date a woman who sounds like Fran Drescher from "The Nanny." But just as it's too easy to be seduced by a pretty voice on the phone, it's also a cinch to rule out an otherwise fetching gal because of her Noo Yawk accent or weird, high-pitched giggle. By the third or fourth date, you'll know for sure whether her voice is really a deal-breaker or just an excuse to keep from getting serious.
[shadow=red,left,300][glow=red,2,300]Everyone voice sounds a certain way when you're first getting to know each other. The thing is....whether she sounds sexy or pissed you can't base a woman off the sound of her voice. [/glow][/shadow]
Her hair color
I won't delve here into the varied and complex reasons why guys are obsessed with blondes, mainly because I don't know what they are. What I do know, however, is that ruling out a pretty, perky, smart gal because she happens to have dark hair is like refusing a gift of a brand-new Porsche because the upholstery is the wrong color. If she likes you enough (and lord knows why she would, with that attitude), maybe she'll get a dye job and indulge your fantasies.
[shadow=red,left,300][glow=red,2,300]Look, I gotta be real on this. To quote the great philosopher Willie D. "Fucked Up is how you look to Willie D./ I just gotta have a bitch that got mo' hair den me". Now obviously I ain't calling anyone a bitch, but you gotta have more hair than I got. In other words I can't have a bald sista, I'm sorry. Now if you weaving it up, that's cool, but don't be all wild and ghetto with it. I mean damn I want a lady not a hoodrat.
ok dat's my take on everything! [/glow][/shadow]
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Post by Simply_Uneque on Apr 2, 2004 12:06:40 GMT -5
I like your responses!!!
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Post by Grits on Apr 2, 2004 15:43:43 GMT -5
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Post by Autumn on Apr 2, 2004 18:49:34 GMT -5
Grits you are to funny.
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Post by deepthought74 on Apr 4, 2004 10:53:38 GMT -5
Popular wisdom has it that guys will hit on anything that breathes, but the truth is, we can be pickier than an 80-year-old widow squeezing melons at the corner supermarket. Even more than women — who (fairly or unfairly) are as likely to reject guys based on their earning power and personality as the way they look — men tend to be strictly superficial when it comes to dating, recklessly dismissing otherwise attractive gals according to the following skin-deep criteria: TEXTHer age A few generations ago, unmarried women in their late teens were considered hopeless spinsters; today, youthful-looking 50-year-olds are having triplets. Now that I've put things into perspective, does it really matter if that otherwise perfect gal is a couple of years older than your desired range? True, if you're in your early 30s, there's no reason you have to date a 60-year-old. But if you're 40 years old and refuse to consider any woman older than 37, you may want to rethink your priorities. Age is not that big of a thing with me as long..as she is legal  ...not trying to catch a case u know! Her weight Decades of exposure to primetime TV, Playboy magazine and the Howard Stern Show have convinced men that the ideal female is 5 feet 7 inches tall and weighs 100 pounds. As a result, what most guys consider "overweight" is actually quite normal, and "obese" is only a few pounds over that. If you rule out a gal for being (in your eyes) five or ten pounds overweight, you need to turn off the boob tube and spend more time in the real world. I prefer thick women personally speaking...brothers watch too much TV...slim is cool also but u cant throw away the thick sisters for TV, false reality women!! Her voice No one expects you to date a woman who sounds like Fran Drescher from "The Nanny." But just as it's too easy to be seduced by a pretty voice on the phone, it's also a cinch to rule out an otherwise fetching gal because of her Noo Yawk accent or weird, high-pitched giggle. By the third or fourth date, you'll know for sure whether her voice is really a deal-breaker or just an excuse to keep from getting serious. Her hair color I won't delve here into the varied and complex reasons why guys are obsessed with blondes, mainly because I don't know what they are. What I do know, however, is that ruling out a pretty, perky, smart gal because she happens to have dark hair is like refusing a gift of a brand-new Porsche because the upholstery is the wrong color. If she likes you enough (and lord knows why she would, with that attitude), maybe she'll get a dye job and indulge your fantasies. Damn a blond...give me a women with dark color hair anytime but thats just me [glow=red,2,300]Alright fellas... what are your thoughts??[/glow] |
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Post by Simply_Uneque on Apr 5, 2004 9:54:08 GMT -5
WHERE ARE THE REST OF THE MEN ON THIS?? COME ON NOW!!!
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Post by Grits on Apr 5, 2004 10:06:59 GMT -5
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Post by slim on Apr 5, 2004 16:19:31 GMT -5
simply gonna kill me...I aint know I modified your post....my fault babe...
here go my reply...my bust simply...okay babe
Popular wisdom has it that guys will hit on anything that breathes, but the truth is, we can be pickier than an 80-year-old widow squeezing melons at the corner supermarket. Even more than women — who (fairly or unfairly) are as likely to reject guys based on their earning power and personality as the way they look — men tend to be strictly superficial when it comes to dating, recklessly dismissing otherwise attractive gals according to the following skin-deep criteria:
Her age
A few generations ago, unmarried women in their late teens were considered hopeless spinsters; today, youthful-looking 50-year-olds are having triplets. Now that I've put things into perspective, does it really matter if that otherwise perfect gal is a couple of years older than your desired range? True, if you're in your early 30s, there's no reason you have to date a 60-year-old. But if you're 40 years old and refuse to consider any woman older than 37, you may want to rethink your priorities.
I always like older women...especially in her 30's...man is like a horny teenager all over agan...but only seasoned and with experience...ummm...that alone is bombay...but me I don't like girls younger than me...I don't know...she gotta be at least 23-25...21 thats just too young...age don't matter as long as she carry herself in a womanly manner
Her weight
Decades of exposure to primetime TV, Playboy magazine and the Howard Stern Show have convinced men that the ideal female is 5 feet 7 inches tall and weighs 100 pounds. As a result, what most guys consider "overweight" is actually quite normal, and "obese" is only a few pounds over that. If you rule out a gal for being (in your eyes) five or ten pounds overweight, you need to turn off the boob tube and spend more time in the real world.
I weigh 185lbs...and I dont want a woman that weigh more than me...I like all women...but if she weigh more than me...then I will not treat her no different...but physically...it just won't be there...and thats real talk
Her voice
No one expects you to date a woman who sounds like Fran Drescher from "The Nanny." But just as it's too easy to be seduced by a pretty voice on the phone, it's also a cinch to rule out an otherwise fetching gal because of her Noo Yawk accent or weird, high-pitched giggle. By the third or fourth date, you'll know for sure whether her voice is really a deal-breaker or just an excuse to keep from getting serious.
I love a woman with a sexy voice...umm...I like accents...I like foriegn girls too...I think accents are so sexy...umm....it drives me crazy when a girl whispers in my ear...she could be saying get off yo lazy ass and take out the trash...but how she says it...its different
Her hair color
I won't delve here into the varied and complex reasons why guys are obsessed with blondes, mainly because I don't know what they are. What I do know, however, is that ruling out a pretty, perky, smart gal because she happens to have dark hair is like refusing a gift of a brand-new Porsche because the upholstery is the wrong color. If she likes you enough (and lord knows why she would, with that attitude), maybe she'll get a dye job and indulge your fantasies.
unless her shit is pink, purple, or orange than we cool...I mean she could have any color as long as she coordinating and looking good
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Post by Simply_Uneque on Apr 6, 2004 8:45:31 GMT -5
You straight Slim...accidents happen!!!
I don't see your respenses... can you put them in a different color?
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...not trying to catch a case u know!