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Post by Style4ya on Apr 3, 2004 22:12:41 GMT -5
If you suspect your mate is cheating, do you snoop around to try to find answers, or do you dismiss the feeling and wait to see if it comes out on it's own?
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Post by Auset on Apr 4, 2004 20:16:28 GMT -5
You watch your damn back! Straight the hell up watch your back! Prepare, but don't jump to conclusions because it may not be anything to it. But watch your back.
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Post by Style4ya on Apr 4, 2004 21:41:19 GMT -5
I dont like to snoop around. You start reading into things when you do that. It'll come out on it's own. It might take awhile, but it does.
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Post by Simply_Uneque on Apr 5, 2004 9:32:16 GMT -5
I will not tell a lie... I have done the snooping thing. It ain't cool!!! Not to mention you hurt yourself and the relationship.
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Post by ariez329 on Apr 6, 2004 11:11:31 GMT -5
I'm what I like to call "a natural" at finding out things... I have to control myself cuz i can start looking for things that's not even there and drive myself krazie.... my passion is to be a private investigator, so i have to curb my "curiousity" at times, in order to give the relationship/situation a chance... but in all honesty if somethings going down, i'm gonna find out, its in my blood......
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Post by Simply_Uneque on Apr 6, 2004 13:41:17 GMT -5
I'm what I like to call "a natural" at finding out things... I have to control myself cuz i can start looking for things that's not even there and drive myself krazie.... my passion is to be a private investigator, so i have to curb my "curiousity" at times, in order to give the relationship/situation a chance... but in all honesty if somethings going down, i'm gonna find out, its in my blood...... I know what you mean!!! People have started calling me... "I Spy". |
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Post by naturalone on Apr 6, 2004 13:44:37 GMT -5
You watch your damn back! Straight the hell up watch your back! Prepare, but don't jump to conclusions because it may not be anything to it. But watch your back.
I' m not a snooper. I don't have the energy it takes to keep it up.
I don't want anyone snooping through my s^^t so......
Besides it can make me paranoid and I don't like that feeling AT ALL.
If I suspect something I keep my eyes, ears, instinct open.
It will give itself up willingly.
It always does....... |
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Post by Style4ya on Apr 6, 2004 14:15:10 GMT -5
I' m not a snooper. I don't have the energy it takes to keep it up.
I don't want anyone snooping through my s^^t so......
Besides it can make me paranoid and I don't like that feeling AT ALL.
If I suspect something I keep my eyes, ears, instinct open.
It will give itself up willingly.
It always does.......Exactly. I call it "my gift" |
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Post by Tori on Apr 6, 2004 15:27:05 GMT -5
Well y'all know I'm a little young and I just can't help myself...really sensitive...can't take being hurt. So I snoop yeah yeah just snoopin on the down low.  I've found out something everytime too every single freakin time! Every ex that cheated calls me a psycho b/c that is what I turn into something snapped in me when I was sixteen and I havn't been right since  |
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Post by Simply_Uneque on Apr 7, 2004 8:23:39 GMT -5
Well y'all know I'm a little young and I just can't help myself...really sensitive...can't take being hurt. So I snoop yeah yeah just snoopin on the down low. I've found out something everytime too every single freakin time! Every ex that cheated calls me a psycho b/c that is what I turn into something snapped in me when I was sixteen and I havn't been right since Tori... being young has nothing to do with snooping because I am sure many women older than you do it. Personally I do believe it is invading someones privacy but shyt if you suspect them of doing something and you confront them about it and they continue to lie about it why not try to find the information on your owe? The only thing is... yo have to be prepared for what you find out emotionally. And if you get caught... oh well. Turn that shyt around on them about what it was you found out. |
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Post by Grits on Apr 7, 2004 9:49:17 GMT -5
Tori... being young has nothing to do with snooping because I am sure many women older than you do it. Personally I do believe it is invading someones privacy but shyt if you suspect them of doing something and you confront them about it and they continue to lie about it why not try to find the information on your owe? The only thing is... yo have to be prepared for what you find out emotionally. And if you get caught... oh well. Turn that shyt around on them about what it was you found out. Hell that honestly don't bother me ebcause I haven't done anything anyway |
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Post by ariez329 on Apr 7, 2004 11:06:20 GMT -5
Tori... u are krazie.... u got me crackin up... only cuz i know you so i can hear you saying this ish  |
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Post by Simply_Uneque on Apr 7, 2004 11:17:05 GMT -5
Hell that honestly don't bother me ebcause I haven't done anything anyway Then you are straight!!! |
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Post by Renetrice on Apr 8, 2004 11:15:32 GMT -5
[glow=white,3,300]I can get quite "inquisitive" at times. If I find something I think is suspect, I'd rather approach my husband with my feelings, than let them fester.[/glow]
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Post by Autumn on Apr 9, 2004 12:27:36 GMT -5
Well... I think you can snoop if ya want but be prepared if you find something. Sometimes snooping is worthless because even after you find what you think may be something your not going to leave untill you get good and ready or untill you get some concrete evidence. So I just say why be with someone you don't trust, take a chill pill everything in the dark comes to light.
We all need some type of privacy. I wouldn't want any one snooping through my stuff so I TRY not to snoop in theirs.
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I've found out something everytime too every single freakin time! Every ex that cheated calls me a psycho b/c that is what I turn into something snapped in me when I was sixteen and I havn't been right since 
