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Post by Justin on Oct 6, 2005 15:57:09 GMT -5
lol You should have more confidence. It's hard to wait and the unknowing is scary at times but all you can do is wait or try it on your own by being more aggressive.
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Post by jamadianUK on Oct 24, 2005 11:24:05 GMT -5
Ummmmmm I have the confidence to wait, I value myself enough to hold on, don't think I jump into and out of bed so easily with any man. I'm just stating that I commend you on your walk so far, don't get it twisted Justin. I've been celibate before and it was hard, but I stayed the course until someone worthwhile came into my life. Someone I still talk and chill with ,but have no reason to ever step back into a realtionship with.
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Post by Justin on Oct 27, 2005 20:42:42 GMT -5
Well thank you Jam. And don't worry, I wasn't gettin' it twisted. It is good that you can remain friends with someone you have been intimate with. To me, it seems as if that would be...odd.
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Post by jamadianUK on Nov 1, 2005 5:42:00 GMT -5
WHY IS IT ODD? 6 DEGREES OF SEPERATION,EVER HEARD OF IT? I PERSONALLY LOVE THE FACT THAT i'VE REMAINED FRIENDS WITH EVERYONE i'VE BEEN IN A REALTIONSHIP WITH OR JUST CASUALLY DATED.
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Post by Fela on Nov 1, 2005 14:40:08 GMT -5
I have friendships with most of my ex's , It's hard to do at first but I don't regret the effort ...I mean I was drawn to something about that person to begin with and that doesn't go away b/c we didn't work out. As long as everyone was / is respectful , if not See Ya ! The rest of them seem to be forming some un-holy support group Fela Annonymous perhaps ?...I'm just messing !
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Post by jamadianUK on Nov 7, 2005 7:53:36 GMT -5
You see Justin, I'm not the only ODD person in here. You learn so much from realtionships, sometimes you realise that person is better being your friend then anything else. And trust me when your in the middle of a dry spell you need a good friend, who also happens to be of the opposite sex.
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Post by Justin on Nov 7, 2005 16:00:56 GMT -5
I see, I see and am beginning to understand.
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