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Post by Pumpkin on Dec 16, 2003 12:37:46 GMT -5
How do you feel about this?
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Post by Auset on Dec 16, 2003 14:31:20 GMT -5
I've got a few friends whom have had to have an abortion for one reason or another, and that's when I truly started thinking about this topic seriously. If I where pregnant today, then I would have to have my child. I don't agree with abortion for myself but I understand why other people do it. When one of my friends comes to me and tells me that they are going to have an abortion I don't condemn them because I know what they are going through in their lives and it's not my desicion to make.
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Post by slim on Dec 16, 2003 14:38:42 GMT -5
I have a son...whom I'm so happy that my sons mother did not choose abortion...I only have one but I should have 3 kids (not bragging)...the women who I was dealing with chose not to have the kids...I told them to at least think about it...but to no avail...they got the abortion anyways...
I think of it all the time...like what if...Its not my place to judge...but if you man/woman enough to do the nasty than you man/woman enough to own up to your actions...everytime you hump...you run the risk of getting pregnant...YOU MUST REMEMBER THAT!!!!
just think if our parents aborted us...then what??
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Post by Auset on Dec 16, 2003 14:46:08 GMT -5
It would be an empty earth. I have a cousin whom had a lot of a abortions and currently has four kids four fathers. But she can't take care of them, not one let alone four. those kids are missing out. I believe in letting your child have the chance to live, I can't have an abortion, i'll just have to be greatful that i am able to give birth. there are so many people whom cannot give birth, so many kids without homes. I want to adopt soon. There are too many kids without homes.
Question, if you knew your child was going to have a birth defect would you have an abortion?
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Post by Pumpkin on Dec 16, 2003 14:55:17 GMT -5
I believe women should have a choice wether to abort or not BUT if they are in a realtionship I think the father should be aware of it I wouldn't just go out and do it. Its is definately something you want to talk about with your partner.
Auset good question!
I had a cousin that was told that and she went on and had her baby and that baby is perfect! He doesn't have any problems not to say the doctor is always wrong but in that case he was. I would not abort based on that. Cause that baby could be the next President!
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Post by Auset on Dec 16, 2003 15:03:10 GMT -5
What if you had a mommas baby daddy's maybe situation where you didn't know who the father was, would you have the child? and if you did have the child would you get a paternity test or would you tell one guy he is the father?
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KitaWita73
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Post by KitaWita73 on Dec 16, 2003 23:05:19 GMT -5
I have a family member as well as a friend who have had abortions more than once. Personally, I am against it and would not have it done if I were to end up pregnant. As far as the momma's baby daddy maybe, if I were in that situation, I would keep the baby and have a paternity test done.
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Post by ariez329 on Dec 17, 2003 10:25:18 GMT -5
I feel as though it should continue to be legal and women should have a choice. What I do not understand are women who use abortion as birth control. Based on the circumstances one nor more than two are understandable. When women just start having 5 and 6, I see that as a problem. Using it as birth control is not what's up...... I'm not saying its wrong cuz if it was it would be illegal... I'm just saying it seems kinda messed up.....
Also women who lie and tell a guy she is pregnant just to get abortion money, then she go shopping...that's fu*ked up... tsk...tsk...tsk
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Post by Pumpkin on Dec 17, 2003 10:30:29 GMT -5
Also women who lie and tell a guy she is pregnant just to get abortion money, then she go shopping...that's fu*ked up... tsk...tsk...tsk Dang people really do that? man  |
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Post by ariez329 on Dec 17, 2003 12:01:10 GMT -5
Pumpkin... Females do that... And the bad thing about it, its grown a$$ females doing this, not just these fast a$$ little young girls...
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Post by Pumpkin on Dec 17, 2003 12:17:16 GMT -5
Thats awful. Just triflin
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