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Post by Pumpkin on Dec 17, 2003 10:07:31 GMT -5
Should we teach our kids about Santa?
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Post by Auset on Dec 17, 2003 11:36:22 GMT -5
I think it's good to teach kids about santa, it gives them a imagination as kids. I think when they are young enough to enjoy the thought of santa. I was taught that there wasn't a santa. I was raised in the church so Jesus is the reason for the season but at the same time I was confused in school when we had to write letters to santa. It was like I wanted to believe but my mother never practiced santa, easter bunny or halloween. It's always spend chirstmas in church, easter is about the ressurection and halloween is halejuiah night. And I understand the reasoning but I still felt left out of alot of things I remember writing a letter to santa and leaving the back door unlocked because we didn't have a chimney, I didn't get what I wanted so I knew it wasn't real then but it hurt me back then that all the lil white children on t.v. got their wishes. Hey it may sound silly but I'm just being real.
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Post by Pumpkin on Dec 17, 2003 11:39:42 GMT -5
Man I feel you. I look at it differently. I go out and spend my money and a white man in a red suit gets the credit for it. That is what bothers me. We struggle to make our children happy and this guy gets all the thanks for it
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Post by Auset on Dec 17, 2003 11:43:02 GMT -5
I think that it should be a way for the kids to believe in the majesticness of the season while the parents still get credit, like mommy bought it from santa, he's was the only one that had the toy. Ya mean?!
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Post by slim on Dec 17, 2003 14:08:41 GMT -5
I think should learn the REAL meaning of Christmas...the birth of Jesus...not just getting some toys...I knew there wasn't no santa... I was a youngsta...I had to be about 6...and I was staying in the PJ's and my best friend ain't get one toy...and my mom felt so bad...I asked my mom why ain't sants bring him no toys...and my mom..sat me down and broke it down...there is no santa...its a lil white lie...we teach our children not to lie to us...and when they tell us they seen the boogieman...we brush it off...because we KNOW there is no boogieman...and yet we lie to them...when there is no santa...
I tell my son...I'm santa...now ask ME what you want...
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Post by Pumpkin on Dec 17, 2003 14:39:11 GMT -5
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Post by Auset on Dec 18, 2003 12:14:38 GMT -5
That was the funniest thing I have ever read, that was off the hook!
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Post by Pumpkin on Dec 18, 2003 14:26:10 GMT -5
Santa will make me bust him up sending stuff to my kids like that ;D
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Post by Auset on Dec 18, 2003 14:42:56 GMT -5
yeah those are fighting words, if I was Suzzie I'd be on my way to the north pole with sneaks and vasaline on my face!
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Post by joyluv on Dec 19, 2003 9:35:29 GMT -5
Santa is George Bush in a fat suit...all the white folk get their toys while we wonder when we can get back to work to make up for shit we bought our kids for one day only.
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Post by Simply_Uneque on Dec 22, 2003 16:15:08 GMT -5
I teach my children the Religious aspect of Christmas. I also use it as an opportunity to reward my children for good behavior throughout most of the year and good report cards. Just a little something extra to say mommy appreciates all your hard work, just in case I forgot to tell you.
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Post by KitaWita73 on Dec 24, 2003 17:34:26 GMT -5
When my sister and I were comin' along, our parents didn't really explain that there wasn't a Santa until I was maybe around 10 and my sister was 7. However, afterwards we were taught the real meanin' of the Christmas holiday.
When our brother came along, my parents decided that they would go ahead and explain the real reason for Christmas without havin' him think that there was a Santa Claus. He was around 5 when they explained this to him.
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Post by MAJE on Dec 28, 2003 11:53:43 GMT -5
hmmmm who the hell is santa why there is a santa.. and what other countries there are santas? are there santas in england russia the netherlands jamaica ps the netherlands also has SINTERKLAAS (thats santa in the dutch translation) they celebrate this on the 5th of december this santa really has lived in the past century wait i will copy and past the story ok the thing that botters me is the ZWART PIET thing ok if ya read the history ya can understan but not anybody knows the history and i dont like to see that childeren see a black person to be a zwart piet hmm how to explain this peeps get stereo type images childeren get stereotype ideas wenn they see black peep ya know wha i mean oh maybe yall dont understand wha i mean le me show yall the pics of sinterklaas and zwarte piet then ya understand wha i mean there is this link where somebody from the states wrote about it check this link www.awfulgood.com/index.phpback in the days we (thats my peeps the hood where we live ) didnt celebrate this sinterklaas thing and we did it our way the zwarte piet wasnt black we did use all colors purple yellow green etc to make kids aware of color the santa wasnt white he was colorfull why is tha santa white??? so we did use colorfull thing kids doesnt have to be afraid of a santa (white) or zwarte piet(black) white kids if they see a zwarte piet they do are afraid of that person (black ) so after the holidays wenn they see a black person they are afraid hmm so thats why we did use the colorfull santa and his helpers from bleu till green it has to be a colorfull event isnt it
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Post by MAJE on Dec 28, 2003 13:21:43 GMT -5
HMM WHO OR WHA IS THE HISTORY BEHIND THIS SIDEKICK OR HELPER OF SANTA??
from other website and stories i read that they really dont know what color black pete really has because of his job in the chympnie he became darker and darker so nobody really knows his color and for some it doesnt matter what color he has
ok hmmmmmmmmm e.
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Post by MAJE on Dec 28, 2003 13:25:48 GMT -5
ok peeps at work and at my school do think i am acting stupid about this black pete thing
i dont think i am acting weird
i say its my black awarness just being proud to know who i am where i come from and dont wanna to be compare with a black pete or what eva
since last year i celebrate with this santa thing noo its just giving each other presents there are no santas or petes in the building but i just participate only to show them that ya can celebrate this event without a santa or a pete
aaw whateva its so difficult to explain this to my coworkers but hey they dont feel how i feel about this
hmm see ya e.
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