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Post by Auset on Oct 22, 2003 14:49:27 GMT -5
I need respect most because I think the rest will follow  |
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Post by Simply_Uneque on Oct 22, 2003 15:52:12 GMT -5
I voted for respect because that is very important. But I also think that communication is just as key. If you don't communicate with each other, how can you have a relationship based on respect? You can't, in my opinion, because they both go hand-in-hand. You have to be willing to communicate to build on the respect that should be there and vice-versa.
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Post by Dlight on Oct 23, 2003 16:34:07 GMT -5
I chose honesty because to me if you are honest then everything else will fall into place. If you are honest then respect becomes mutual, lack of trust doesn't become an issue, and communication is already a factor.
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jaded
Second Cousin
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Post by jaded on Oct 23, 2003 16:36:26 GMT -5
I chose other b/c I guess I want it all, I feel I deserve it all! |
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Post by Tori on Oct 23, 2003 16:56:58 GMT -5
I have to have communication, because I get so mad when they do that thing where you know they are waiting for you to finish talking so they can say something else. That makes me feel like you don't respect me and that is going to mess us up! If you are prentendeing to listen then you are not being honest with me and I certainly can't trust you! Communication is KEY!  |
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Post by slim on Oct 23, 2003 17:21:49 GMT -5
I would say trust...trust is the blueprint
I would say...honesty is the foundation
I would say...communication are the windows...keep them open so fresh air can breeze thru
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KitaWita73
Almost fam *Step brother/sister*
...In this journey I'm learnin' to love me<br>so I can get free.<br>You feel me?
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Post by KitaWita73 on Oct 24, 2003 23:17:59 GMT -5
Communication is the key as far as I'm concerned. Without it, things could get quite ugly.  |
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khandi
Almost fam *Step brother/sister*
Get Back!
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Post by khandi on Oct 30, 2003 12:02:21 GMT -5
I just need LOVE I think if you love me then you will earnestly give me everything I need ! |
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Post by The_Realist on Nov 12, 2003 10:40:36 GMT -5
i have 5 demands.. all equally important:
1. Respect (i believe honesty ties into that.. if they lie, that's disrespectful)
2. Trust
3. Communication
4. Understanding
5. Time
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Tisha
Auset Ausar Intern
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Post by Tisha on Nov 12, 2003 13:24:32 GMT -5
I can say that I can't say which I would put above another but I can say I need them all. Communication is a part of every day life so without that you will get no where but it is most needed to be in a relationship. Either with your mom dad boyfriend or sister brother a communication level has to be there to hold that relationship together. Honesty ties in with trust, and respect because you can't say you trust someone who is not honest and has no respect for you or your relationship. So there's no one with out the other. Understanding comes in time but before you can understand someone you have to have a communication level of some kind with them to understand. Just cause two people like macaroni and cheese doesn't mean they understand each other, you have to share time with each other, going out or even just chillin' at the crib time has to be put into that relationship so that you can really find out who they are and they need to know who you are and let the relationship take it's own course from there. Love is a mutual well rounded feeling that two people(love love not family and friends love) share with one another there is no this but not that it's all in there together and when you find that person that makes you feel like.....everything and they have a strong relationship with god......mann can't nothing beat that. This is my personal opinion though.
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