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Post by Auset on Oct 16, 2005 23:28:22 GMT -5
They say a little time away from that signifigant other makes the world of a difference in a relationship. Why do you think so, and how long do you think is suffiecent.
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Post by Fela on Oct 17, 2005 4:56:48 GMT -5
For me it's all about "why ". Why do I need time away , is it because there is an un-resolved issue ? If that's the case I will take time out and look w/in myself and find solutions. Or at the very least find the words to convey what I am dealing with to my S/O so we are both on the same page. I listen to my heart and when my heart says it's time to return, I follow that need . Naturally because of our work my Beloved and I spend a good deal of time apart and we both use this time to look at the blessings in our lives. We also tend to take part in things that we find enriching and share the positive energy w/ each other when we are reunited. I will admit though ,quite often I miss my Love sooo much that I spend much of our time apart longing for and plotting the return to our nest.
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Post by Msmoore on Oct 17, 2005 6:53:09 GMT -5
I think sometimes you can comunicate very well with one another, then there are other times when neither one of you is hearing the other. Sometimes you just have to BREATH then speak and if there is still an issue just kindly say we need time apart. I have done it and for the most part it worked out wonders!!!! it was like maybe a week and when we finally spoke it was much more clarity. This may not be for everyone but it worked for me.
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Post by Justin on Oct 18, 2005 14:38:19 GMT -5
I think that sometimes when you're apart you have time to sort things out on your own and do more of a dissection of yourself and the situation and are able to come up with an answer or conclusion. I think she does the same thing and then when you're back together, things are either better or worse. Usually better though.
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Post by Auset on Oct 19, 2005 11:49:31 GMT -5
What about just going away for a few days. Not even to actually seperate but just one person taking a little vacation?
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Post by Divine Justice on Oct 25, 2005 9:26:44 GMT -5
Time away maybe that's what I need because right now I feel like I'm going to strangle this man of mine. how much time though I don't know......
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Post by Auset on Oct 25, 2005 10:11:32 GMT -5
Well if you need you know you can take a few days down here with your cuz let me know when you want to come down.
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Post by Justin on Oct 27, 2005 20:45:33 GMT -5
What about just going away for a few days. Not even to actually seperate but just one person taking a little vacation? Even a few days can do a relationship justice but it can also make a relationship unfixable depending on how or what each of them did while apart.
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Post by Justin on Oct 27, 2005 20:45:51 GMT -5
Overall, I think short separation is a good thing.
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