magicstik
Almost fam *Step brother/sister*
Mild Mannered by day, Hero at night!
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Post by magicstik on Jun 23, 2004 13:41:04 GMT -5
I'll get more into it in a bit, but at what point do you feel like it's time to move on in a relationship?
Do you continue to keep trying and sacrifice your happiness or do you seek for that contentment elsewhere?
If your mate had most of the things you wanted in a relationship but was lacking in others, how long do you continue to try and discuss it before you find someone else to satisfy you?
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Post by naturalone on Jun 23, 2004 15:39:42 GMT -5
[glow=brown,2,300]very good question....i need to see some responses on this before i answer because i had this same scenerio. so i'd like to know how others would handle this.
also, i think it depends on the problems.[/glow]
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Post by Style4ya on Jun 23, 2004 16:00:09 GMT -5
I'll get more into it in a bit, but at what point do you feel like it's time to move on in a relationship? Do you continue to keep trying and sacrifice your happiness or do you seek for that contentment elsewhere? If your mate had most of the things you wanted in a relationship but was lacking in others, how long do you continue to try and discuss it before you find someone else to satisfy you? You sound like you got something on yo mind Mr. Magic. You know, I think that is my problem. I always sacrifice my happiness to please my man. But I love to put my man up on a pedestal. Thats just how I am. But I have to learn from my mistakes and now I realize that he has to earn that. I have no problem with seeking things elsewhere right now, because after you been through so much shit, you start to know the signs. As far as how long do you continue to try....till you get tired. At least no one said that you aint try. Everybody has that breakin point. You'll know when it's time to move on. It's all about when YOU are ready to move on. |
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Divine Justice
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I'm a POOH @ heart...
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Post by Divine Justice on Jun 23, 2004 20:22:35 GMT -5
I feel like you should call it quits when you just can't find any other way to try and work it out. Sometimes it's hard when you love a person with everything you have but when it's not being returned you have to learn how to let it go and move on.
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Post by jamadianUK on Jun 24, 2004 8:28:40 GMT -5
When you have nothing to build on When violence is the answer to solving problems When you start to cheat  I spent 4hrs with my sisterfriend talking about this, I feel we don't let people just be in realtionships,our standards are so high no one can match it. What has change that you NEED to break things off Mr Magic? |
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magicstik
Almost fam *Step brother/sister*
Mild Mannered by day, Hero at night!
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Post by magicstik on Jun 24, 2004 12:21:05 GMT -5
Communication isn't there. Chemistry is gone. We've gotten complacent and no matter how much I try to make things better, it doesn't seem to continue. My answer to a perfect relatonship is not always sex. I need more than that from my mate. She thinks that is the quick fix I'm looking for and I'm tired of explaining it isn't.
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Post by Style4ya on Jun 24, 2004 14:45:35 GMT -5
Communication isn't there. Chemistry is gone. We've gotten complacent and no matter how much I try to make things better, it doesn't seem to continue. My answer to a perfect relatonship is not always sex. I need more than that from my mate. She thinks that is the quick fix I'm looking for and I'm tired of explaining it isn't. So are you saying that you are ready to move on? Are you really ready for the two of you to go your seperate ways? Do you think she will agree? How are you going to handle the situation? |
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magicstik
Almost fam *Step brother/sister*
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Post by magicstik on Jun 24, 2004 19:09:15 GMT -5
So are you saying that you are ready to move on? Are you really ready for the two of you to go your seperate ways? Do you think she will agree? How are you going to handle the situation? Not sure what I'm going to do just yet but I'm also not a quitter. Just tired of being the romantic and not getting the appreciation. |
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Post by Style4ya on Jun 24, 2004 20:56:26 GMT -5
Not sure what I'm going to do just yet but I'm also not a quitter. Just tired of being the romantic and not getting the appreciation. Take your time and do whats in your heart. Can't go wrong there.  |
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Post by jamadianUK on Jun 26, 2004 7:02:34 GMT -5
It's an old saying but " follow your gut ", only you know what's got to change. All the advice in the world can't change your mind, when it's made up. But take your time with your decision cause you can;t go back on it afterwards......or can you?
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Post by Style4ya on Jul 11, 2004 10:16:55 GMT -5
Not sure what I'm going to do just yet but I'm also not a quitter. Just tired of being the romantic and not getting the appreciation. How did this situation come out for you Mr. Magic? Did you two work it out? (if you don't mind me asking) |
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Post by Simply_Uneque on Jul 12, 2004 13:38:18 GMT -5
It's an old saying but " follow your gut ", only you know what's got to change. All the advice in the world can't change your mind, when it's made up. But take your time with your decision cause you can;t go back on it afterwards......or can you? If its meant to be... it will come back. |
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magicstik
Almost fam *Step brother/sister*
Mild Mannered by day, Hero at night!
Posts: 166
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Post by magicstik on Jul 14, 2004 0:27:11 GMT -5
Took a break for awhile to gather some thoughts. How did this situation come out for you Mr. Magic? Did you two work it out? (if you don't mind me asking) |
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Post by jamadianUK on Jul 14, 2004 12:58:19 GMT -5
I'm doing the 2nd chance thing at the moment and I'm wasting my time according to my beloved friends....but noone knows more than you.....and at least you gave your best shot.....just try to be hopeful.
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Post by joyluv on Jul 14, 2004 13:03:38 GMT -5
Hey Magic...gimme a call or email me...
346-581-3944 (after 9pm)
212-683-8060 (9-3pm)
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