Divine Justice
Almost fam *Step brother/sister*
I'm a POOH @ heart...
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Post by Divine Justice on Nov 18, 2004 21:08:57 GMT -5
What do you do when your whole relationship has been a long distance one and now your partner is coming home?
You see I've been with my man for almost two years and he's been in the Navy so we have had a long distance relationship all of this time. Now he's coming home for good and I don't know what the hell to do. granted I'm happy as I can be but scared at the same time. You see this is my real first relationship and I don't want to screw things up.
So please HELP. Someone let me know how you would handle this situation.
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Post by The_Realist on Nov 18, 2004 21:26:36 GMT -5
first and foremost... relax. no need to be scared Ma.. everything will fall in place. Be confident... the hardest part (being away from one another) is over (my opinion).
May i ask what scares you about it?
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Divine Justice
Almost fam *Step brother/sister*
I'm a POOH @ heart...
Posts: 246
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Post by Divine Justice on Nov 18, 2004 21:32:06 GMT -5
I've had so many times before been hurt that I just think it's going to happen again. You see it was easy when he was in VA because if he cheated on me I don't know but around my way there is no way I won't find out. I always find out and as bad ad I want to believe he is faithful and for the most part I do I just can't help but think he will do the same as the rest.
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Post by The_Realist on Nov 18, 2004 21:59:31 GMT -5
do you trust yourself?
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Divine Justice
Almost fam *Step brother/sister*
I'm a POOH @ heart...
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Post by Divine Justice on Nov 21, 2004 4:41:02 GMT -5
[glow=purple,2,300]Some days I do and some I don't[/glow]
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Post by The_Realist on Nov 21, 2004 23:32:02 GMT -5
that could be part of why you have doubts. but, everything will be alright. the hardest part is out of the way. it'll be like a normal relationship.. spend that face-to-face time and what not... plus, no long-distance bills... ha.
keep us updated.
there really are good men out there though; it's a matter of the guy's maturity, as well as the females'.
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Divine Justice
Almost fam *Step brother/sister*
I'm a POOH @ heart...
Posts: 246
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Post by Divine Justice on Nov 23, 2004 22:16:45 GMT -5
I see and I am going to take your advice. I'm going to just take it one day at a time.
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Post by Justin on Nov 29, 2004 11:29:06 GMT -5
Good Luck Bubowlz
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Divine Justice
Almost fam *Step brother/sister*
I'm a POOH @ heart...
Posts: 246
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Post by Divine Justice on Nov 29, 2004 17:17:22 GMT -5
Thanks Justin
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