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Post by The_Realist on Apr 20, 2005 15:18:05 GMT -5
absolutely.
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Post by Justin on Apr 21, 2005 9:33:15 GMT -5
So what was the outcome Realist?
On a side bar- Msmoore What up! Man, you really went all out on that. lol Man, did you ever tell him you knew or did you leave him thinking it was all "womens intuition."
I'm always honest and upfront, even about small stuff just because it always leaves me with a clear conscience.
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Post by The_Realist on Apr 25, 2005 15:12:10 GMT -5
The outcome? me being nosey.
Does he know i stumbled upon them? yup!..
Did he like it? nope!
Would he even have the phone if it wasn't for me? Nope.
Was he in fact doing some shadiness on the side? Yup!
Did i pull his card? Yup!
Are we still together? Yup, but: 1st time, shame on him.. 2nd time, shame on me... i took to initiative to forgive him in hopes that it doesn't happen again.. but, if it does, it would be my fault for giving him a second chance.
Do i regret ever looking? Nope, because they really did pop before my eyes.. so, i think it happened for a reason. i seriously wasn't looking for them.
Is trust present? yes, but a lot was lost. so, i took it upon myself just to trust him and never look at the records again... which, is the true test of trust.
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Post by Justin on Apr 28, 2005 18:20:33 GMT -5
Is trust present? yes, but a lot was lost. so, i took it upon myself just to trust him and never look at the records again... which, is the true test of trust. That's true. Well, I guess it was a good outcome even though you found what you didn't want to find, you now have a understanding.
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Lady
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Post by Lady on May 21, 2005 8:44:16 GMT -5
Well first off if I didn't trust him enough to not look then there is a problem but if I looked and if I called and it was another female that I didn't know as fam or close friend then I would question her. I'm gonna keep it real
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Post by Justin on May 24, 2005 23:32:04 GMT -5
Hey Lady, are you sayin' that trust would mean that you should look? Just wonderin'.
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