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Post by The_Realist on Nov 25, 2005 18:07:55 GMT -5
Maaan. I'm sorry but i must vent.....
The "roommate" is 26yrs old right..... takes my keys, my phone, my wallet, etc and hides them from me when he can't get his way...
I'm fixing to leave to do the laundry.. He is Mad because i wouldn't go to the store to buy him Black N Milds, then turn around and drive back to bring them to him, and then turn back around and go to my destination where i wash clothes... mind you, it's 4:30, i need to make it to the bank before 5, which is on my way to where i wash clothes.
So he throws a fit and takes my keys so that i can't leave and made me miss the damn bank.
I mean, damn! What is the cure for a childish adult?
I mean, damn! WHY???
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Divine Justice
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Post by Divine Justice on Nov 28, 2005 21:05:57 GMT -5
Because when you're not ready to grow up this is what happens. Is he an only child? The youngest? Or a momma's boy? If so there's alot of baggage that come with some of those men, not all.
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Post by The_Realist on Nov 28, 2005 23:29:52 GMT -5
A 26yr old Virgo with 6 sisters. Mama loves him, but admits he is rather selfish.
I mean, to be real, me and him have had A LOT of stress within the past few months...
i was making a rather good amount of money every week working my 2 jobs.. and i ended up getting hurt real bad on my 2nd job 3 days after we moved into our apartment...
so, that automatically had me out of work and bringing no money into the house, and ontop of that i couldn't do anything by myself and had to rely on him for everything... i couldn't bathe, use the restroom, walk, get out of the bed, etc without help... which, shouldn't be a burden, but what is the burden is that made him responsible for keeping up the weight of the bills by himself....
three weeks later, the company he was working for went out of business..so, then we were straight scrapping... which, money is a major stress factor.
Ever since, he's distanced himself from everyone, including me, due to stress and etc... he doesn't know how to handle it (as if i'm not stressed out as well)...
So, it's too much stress in one house, and right now it's just ugly. He really has major anger issues, has childish responses to when he can't get his way, and has shut himself out to me.
It sounds hopeless. Very frustrating.
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Divine Justice
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Post by Divine Justice on Nov 30, 2005 7:18:17 GMT -5
Real I know I'm a Virgo and we can get real stubborn @ times,but Virgo men are worse. He's the only boy, lol mom may not realize it but she helped in that selfishness. My brother's the same way(he's not a Virgo),but he's the only boy, and totally selfish. My man (love him to death) but being an only child makes him selfish in his own right. So I understand you when you say he's distant because of the stress, I go through it. The thing that works for me is praying. But I don't let him shut himself off from me but for so long. We're living under the same roof it's going to be some peace and contentment.
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Post by The_Realist on Nov 30, 2005 21:32:12 GMT -5
ha, yeah... Virgo males and Virgo females are like night and day... but yeah.. whew, he is STUBBORN. He fails to realize that when he's struggling, i am too. And rather than us working through it together, he just wants to shut me out. ugh. Men!
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Divine Justice
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Post by Divine Justice on Dec 1, 2005 7:24:47 GMT -5
Girl who you preaching to I swear men think we're not supposed to struggle. We're supposed to keep going no matter what's going on with us. Please I know I need time to sit back and have my own stress without stresing about his stuff. Your right ugh MEN.
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