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Post by Auset on Oct 2, 2007 9:58:55 GMT -5
So ya'll know I'm married now. Yes I'm an ole married lady, but you know what, it's not that much different than before we got married. I want to know from you all what you feel about marriage and apprhensions in todays society about it. Let's talk about it.
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Post by jamadianUK on Oct 25, 2007 13:20:06 GMT -5
I belive in marriage, not a wedding like so many these days. The union between MAN and WOMAN, all the way. I have many same gender friends and believe they have the right to happiness, but not in the same way,sorry that's my word on that comment.
I'm not ready for commitment right now, maybe he is around the corner lurking in the shadows,but I'm not ready to commit to a plant much less a man.
I hate being SINgle, but I would hate to be in a loveless marriage,that's just wotless.
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Post by Auset on Oct 28, 2007 0:28:46 GMT -5
You know if I could have done the marriage without the wedding I would have done so. If there is one peice of advice I would give to any couple engaged it would be to elope because really the ceremony and reception is not worth the stress when the union can be the same with out all the hoopla.
Jai you will get ready for that big jump into commitment soon enough, I agree with your last statement which is why I definitely suggest taking your time.
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Post by jamadianUK on Nov 2, 2007 1:30:33 GMT -5
Been doing a lot of soul serching and praying like a nutter recently. I'm like 80% ready to commit,even without the man here yet lol.
I've been telling family/friends/corner shop workers that I will elope since I was little.Not changing my mind for nothing.
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Post by Msmoore on Apr 17, 2008 2:56:47 GMT -5
Been a minute but had to comment on this!!! I would LOOOOOOOOve to be married, I am getting older but my standards remain the same. I have quite a few friends who were married and now divorced, but this to me is not a reflection on what I want, they got married for the wrong reasons. I am patiently waiting , He will find me I refuse to be with someone and be miserable, I can do BAD by myself or I can be Happy bymyself.
Aussie I applaud you and I wish you the very best!!! you my sista have a Good head on your shoulders and I know the two you of are well committed to one another.
Blessings to You!!!!
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Post by Auset on Apr 17, 2008 20:06:43 GMT -5
Thank you mama. Marriage is nothing to play with. If someone isn't ready for this life they definitely should rethink thier situation. Both parties really have to be ready to work on thier marriage to put it simply.
Girl my advice is to wait for God to send someone to you because if you spend time with somene you were looking for you will miss the one God has for you. And when that day comes, elope! lol Real talk though. Thank you for the blessings.
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Post by gabby on Jan 22, 2018 4:33:48 GMT -5
My life has changed a lot since my marriage. At first we began to live together, secondly, I quit my job, in the third, I became a housewife. My relationship with my husband also changed. We very quickly came to routine. I thought that we made a mistake when we decided to get married. We quarreled for various reasons. I'm not a good housekeeper. We turned to a psychologist who helped us to understand our relationships and mistakes. Now my husband tries not to linger at work, but I try to cook well and keep the house clean. I found the app housewife tips, there are many good tips how to conduct a household. When we stopped cussing and blaming each other, we began to cope with our problems together. My husband and I became closer and I no longer think about divorce. |
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